FAQs
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An End of Life Doula (also called a death Doula) is a calm, compassionate support person who walks alongside individuals and families as they navigate the final chapter of life. We don't replace doctors or medical teams – we work alongside them, offering emotional, spiritual, and practical support that honours your values and wishes.
Our role is to hold space for what matters most – whether that’s easing fear, supporting important conversations, guiding simple rituals, or just being present. Like birth, dying is a deeply human experience. A doula helps soften the journey, reduce isolation, and bring meaning and dignity to the process of dying – for both the individual and their loved ones.
For more details → About
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End of Life Doulas are non-medical support people. While hospice and palliative care teams manage medical and clinical needs, doulas offer personal, emotional, and spiritual support.
We help with:
Support to the dying person and their loved ones before, during, and after death.
Comfort measures like calming rituals or guided imagery
Creating meaningful connections and legacy projects
We don’t provide medical care, administer medication, or replace the work of doctors and nurses – we complement them.
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You can invite a doula into your journey at any stage – from the time of diagnosis, during treatment, or as the end of life draws closer. Some people connect with a doula early to help plan and prepare. Others reach out when more hands-on emotional or practical support is needed.
Whether you need just one conversation or ongoing support, it’s always okay to reach out.
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I offer a wide range of support, including:
Guiding important conversations and care wishes
Supporting Advance Care Planning and legacy work
Facilitating meaningful rituals
Providing gentle sensory comfort and presence
Helping keep family connected and informed
Liaising with carer and community support
Bridging communication with medical teams
Assisting with vigils, emotional support, and more
For full details → Services
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There are a few clear boundaries to my role:
I can’t offer medical or legal advice
I can’t provide daily personal care (e.g., showering, shopping, administering medication)
I can’t act as a family mediator or try to resolve long-standing conflicts
I can’t make decisions on your behalf
I can’t ensure that things turn out exactly as you would have wanted as death, like life, is unpredictable and unique. I do offer presence, compassion, and care every step of the way to help make things turn out the best they could.
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I’m available:
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday & Friday: 9am – 5:30pm ($75/hr)
After-hours & weekends: $85/hr
Vigil hours are flexible and can be discussed based on your needs.
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Yes. Many services such as planning, legacy conversations, emotional support, and family meetings, can be offered via Zoom or phone. This is especially helpful for families who are geographically spread out.
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The first step is a free introductory chat by phone. This gives you a chance to ask questions, share your situation, and see whether working together feels right.
Get in touch → Contact